Have you ever castigated yourself for failing to
remember almost everything that would have made your life better? Like
that one occasion when you just stared at your boss' wife while she was
talking to you, just because you forgot that she was the Number One
man's wife? This cost you your promotion and would have caused you your
job if not for some saving graces like your former job performance rate.
Or
what about that day when you were supposed to make a product
presentation to a very important client but you forgot all about it and
took a leave of absence? Luckily, your client called up your office to
cancel the appointment because she was sick.
But don't kill
yourself first. You're not getting dumber or older; it's just that you
have failed to develop good memory skills that would have made you
remember these things. As experts say, there is no good or bad memory;
only unorganized thoughts.
A poor memory is equal to poor
recollection of things. If you keep forgetting things, then don't blame
your memory because it's not the culprit. What you should blame is the
little or lack of attention you place on things.
Most people, at
one time or another, have experienced memory loss. It is synonymous
with forgetfulness or what others refer to as being scatterbrained. To
solve this problem, you have to realize that your inability to recall
is caused by other things like retention problems, being overworked,
information overload and stress.
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There are people who are plain
slow in recalling things, not because they are stupid but because they
do not practice their recalling skills. It's all a matter of getting
the right skills for recollection.
A person who is overworked is
also prone to forgetting things, particularly trivial things that may
be related or unrelated to their work. Because of too much work, you
have no choice but to focus your attention on more important things
like the work at hand.
The media revolution is responsible for
bombarding us with information. Often, people get information overload.
There's just too much information going on in our heads that we tend to
forget the things that matter most.
There are several things we
encounter in our daily lives that are called memory tasks. Among these
are names (of family and friends, of people we meet and of people we do
business with), birthdays, dates (like when do we have to go to the
doctor for check up), anniversaries and phone numbers.
A good
memory will help improve your status in life. It will come in handy
both in your personal life and in your business dealings. Do you know
that most successful people are the ones who can easily remember things
like names?
And yet, a name is one thing that we always forget.
Remembering names is one of the most important assets we can have,
whatever job we are in. It may be a cliché but it is true that his or
her name is the sweetest word that can be said to a person. Experiment
on this by asking for the names of salesladies, or the doctor's
secretary and then call them by their first names. The next time you
visit them, you will surely be treated like a friend.
To be good
in recalling names, listen attentively whenever a person is introduced
to you. Then repeat his or her name, and mentally connect the person's
name to an object or event familiar to you. Link the name to a funny
thing or event, the better the chances of recall.
We discussed
ways to improve your memory in previous chapters, however this is
another tactic that is a bit different. This strategy for recalling
information is through the use of "mnemonics." Mnemonics is a memory
tool or device that aids the memory in recalling information. Mnemonics
can be used through our imagination. It means associating things by its
size, shape, color or smell. You can also create your own mnemonics by
connecting and clashing images in your mind.
If you often forget
numbers like your bank account, then it would be best to create a
mnemonic for it. Associate the numbers of your bank account with
numbers that are significant to you life. Like if the first numbers of
your bank account is 05993, and you happen to be born in May, then you
can remember the first two numbers by associating it with your month of
birth. The double nine is easier to associate with nine twins, and
three with your house number.